Okay, as a poly individual myself, i will go right ahead and sound a minority viewpoint that this may work.

Okay, as a poly individual myself, i will go right ahead and sound a minority viewpoint that this may work.

We have no idea enough whether it will be a drama-filled mire for you or not about him and his relationship with his wife to know. Plenty of poly individuals i understand are good communicators and generally speaking low-drama individuals to date.

A things that are few think of.

A) Jealousy takes place, also for non-monogamous individuals. What goes on if you will get jealous? What goes on if she gets jealous? Can it be ok to generally share these exact things? Is he conscientious enough to worry about your emotions while you aren’t the partner that is primary?

B) discernment. It will likely be much simpler for you personally in the event that next-door neighbors do not know.

C) You say you do not wish a significant relationship, but think because specifically as you’ll by what you would like from some body you will be casually dating. Seeing one another when every couple weeks? Once per week?

D) Logistics. Does he come up to your home because you are otherwise single? Do you really head out and then write out when you look at the seat that is back teens?

It very slow and see how you feel at each stage if you decide to move forward, take. Be truthful together with your emotions to see just exactly just how he responds to that particular sincerity. If you ask me, worthwhile individuals are happy to talk you using your insecurities and place you at simplicity. (more…)

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